Posts Tagged ‘Obstacles’

Become a Winner- Part 2

August 4th, 2009

The Starting point to becoming a winner.

What separates Losers from Winners is the Loser’s compulsive need for immediate gratification. Losers can be reluctant to invest their time, effort and money in advance unless they can be assured of an immediate return.

Winners on the other hand, are willing to pay the price in advance, knowing they can only receive in direct proportion to what they are willing to extend.

The fire of desire.

The willingness to expand time, money and energy to have what you want requires strong Desire. The more you Desire to go from being a Loser or a Non-Winner to a Winner, the less likely you’ll accept anything else.

When Desire meets opportunity, exciting things begin to happen! If you’ve never been able to accept this, it’s without a doubt because you’ve been concentrating on something else. Maybe you’ve allowed yourself to become preoccupied with a lot of negative input, all the “reasons” why something may not work.

Negative thoughts generate fear, anxiety and discouragement. Once you allow these negative thoughts to become your dominant beliefs, you are literally sabotaging your ability to become a Winner.

Desire, on the other hand, is a creative force. It helps you to accept what you want to accomplish and it inspires enthusiasm.

Opportunities or Obstacles

By nature, we are not victims but creators and all creation begins with Belief. In this case, if you believe something will work, you’ll see the opportunities. If you believe something will not work, you’ll see obstacles.

Are there some obstacles in your life that can be turned into opportunities?

If so, why not start now by viewing your obstacles as hidden opportunities for Success?

To your Success,

Cristiana Martinez

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Become a Winner- Part 1

July 27th, 2009

The game of life.

In his book, “Betting on Yourself”, Dr Robert Anthony said that, if you’re determined to create a rewarding Network Marketing Business, to succeed on your relationships and to enjoy a sense of emotional well-being, keep reading so you can learn how to become a Winner in all these areas.

The path to winning is reasonably straight. There are however a number of obstacles that need to be overcome along the way.

Winning is an Attitude.

To understand what it takes to beat the odds against losing, you must first understand what it takes to be a winner.

Contrary to popular belief, winning is not a matter of luck. Winning is an Attitude.

For the purpose of this study, Dr. Robert Anthony divided the general population into 3 specific categories:

1. Winners

2. Losers

3. Non-Winners

Winner- This is a person who has what he wants. He achieves whatever he sets out to accomplish.

Loser- This one is someone who doesn’t have all he wants but has good “reasons” why he doesn’t have it. He feels he’s a victim of people, circumstances and conditions. He blames everyone and everything for his current situation in life.

Non-Winner- This is a person who is willing to do whatever it takes to be a Winner but who lacks the necessary knowledge and skills to go from where he is to where he wants to be. He doesn’t blame family, friends and some historical event in his life, nor does he blame himself. He realizes that through great knowledge and desire he can make some significant changes. Recognizing his present situation as a temporary one, he’s willing to do whatever is necessary to get on the path that leads to winning.

It you’re not presently a Winner, you are either a Loser or a Non-Winner. As a Loser, you cannot have what you want until you are willing to take the First Step.

This requires giving up all excuses or “reasons” for not having what you want. It also means no longer identifying with or attempting to justify your “victim” status. Once a Loser is able to do this, he will automatically move up into a Non-Winner category. As a Non-Winner, it now becomes possible to practice and eventually master the necessary skills to become a Winner.

In my next post I’ll give you the starting point to becoming a Winner.

To your Success,

Cristiana Martinez

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