By Michael Dlouhy, author of the Free e-Book on MLM “Success in 10 Steps”
One thing network marketers do is … we wonder why other people do the things they do. Some of that stuff really seems irrational, doesn’t it? Selfish, mean, nuts? It’s frustrating just to think about someone doing those crazy things. Why can’t they be normal? Like … like … like US for instance!
And do you know what the height of this lunacy is? They … look at us … and think exactly the same thing!
Since they are so set in their crazy ways, maybe the smartest thing for us to do is to be a bit less bothered by their nuttiness.
One way to do this is to look beyond their behavior and into their soul. The vast majority of associates and prospects and family members aren’t being devious. They are just doing what they believe in. If you can look at the other person and see the innocence behind their behavior, then you can have compassion for them.
One area where others seem to often “go too far” is in their idea of how quickly we should be doing some pretty weird (probably unproductive) action, to help them in their MLM business. To them, it’s urgent. You, on the other hand, have 27 things on your list more urgent and more likely to produce good results. So just think of the frustration you feel when a project is urgent to you and you have to depend on someone else for the next step. That may make it easier to “feel their pain” and not be so bothered by their behavior.
We appreciate you!
Michael & Linda Dlouhy
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I want to quote your post in my blog. It can?
And you et an account on Twitter?
Could you recommend any specific resources, books, or other blogs on this topic?
Alex, thanks for your interest. My Tweeter ID is mentorCristiana.
Allison, a great Free e-book on the topic is Success in 10 Steps by Michael DLouhy. You could download it by going to http://tinyurl.com/SucceedMLMe-BookTraining
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